The Dating Game

by Wayne Spivak
VAR Business August 03, 1998, Issue: 1416

As a VAR, you're always looking for new business opportunities. However, to paraphrase an old pop song, are you "looking for clients in all the wrong places?" Are you grabbing and accepting every lead as a customer? If so, you are certainly courting disaster.

Not every prospect deserves to be your client. Spend time together to see whether there is enough common ground to maintain a relationship.

Some Questions To Ask Before Forming A Relationship:
- Are you listening to the prospect?
- Is the prospect listening to you?
- Are you getting "positive" vibes?
- Is the prospect making you jump through too many hoops?
- Do you truly have the expertise and the available resources to devote to this project?
- Are you able to migrate the client from the sales cycle to the consulting cycle? Or is the client using your sales cycle as free consulting?
- Is the client willing to sign a contract or memo of understanding?

Some Danger Signs Of A Bad Client:
- The prospect tells you how bad the last VAR was.
- During your meetings, the prospect constantly interrupts you to answer the phone or deal with other issues.
- The prospect does not possess the in-house expertise that will enable them to properly use the technology they say they need.
- The prospect isn't receptive to training.
- The prospect does not want to spend the time (and money) to properly plan the project.
- The prospect is rushing you to get everything accomplished.
- There's so much talk about price, you feel as if you're not allowed to make a profit.

You'll find that the worse the relationship, the greater the number of unfavorable results. However, great clients come back with almost all-positive responses.

-Wayne Spivak is president of SBA Consulting Inc., an IT consulting firm in Bellmore, N.Y., and SBA.NET.WEB, an Internet and Web consulting firm.